Saturday, February 21, 2009

We Are Officially Over

After the talk on Monday, I haven't heard a peep from him. I texted him on Tuesday, saying that he has until Friday to call me and talk or we are officially off. I did this because I wanted closure. I believe leaving things hanging in a relationship is a bad idea. It should be a yes or no, so that we both can move on. But truthfully, I wasn't expecting it to happen and I was right. He doesn't bother to salvage this relationship, so I shouldn't care about it either.

I'm fine actually. I've been prepared for this since beginning of CNY when I noticed his behaviour. Honestly, I hadn't expect this relationship to last long neither, given the circumstances. I have to admit that I made the mistake of jumping into it too fast, before I really got to know him. To my dear friends and readers who sent me words of encouragement, thank you so much.

Friday is over, and so are we.

10 comments:

Calvin said...

Awww...sorry to hear about the breakup but I'm sure you will find a more suitable one in future.

Glad that you're doing fine with this.

Bengbeng said...

i am glad you have this sense of closure and not prolonging the whole painful episode. but it could be he may still come back. just take a day at a time. in the meantime your options are still open. go out, mix more. hugz Mark

Kevin TCP said...

Good action ;) ...
Find a new one !!!

Mark said...

Calvin: Thanks ya.

Bengbeng: Well, even if he decides to come back now, I don't think I wanna go through it all over again. I've already let him go. I'm prepared to date again though =)

Kevin: Hehe, I just wanna take a break for a while maybe...

misterclueless said...

u score over there
keep it up
(not trying to be a bitch anyway)

cookiedonut said...

hope u'll find a better person in the future :-)

Mark said...

Jeffrey: Thanks =P

cookiedonut: Thanks, I hope so =)

KhaO-LAr-sEXy-PRESS said...

dear mark, sometimes its better to break off than getting hurt in the long run. most guys aren't caring enuf. its gud that u can let go. move on. :)

David (in sg nibong) said...

Hey Mark, I know you will bounce back and move on. Have fun dating friend! I wish you all the best and you still have all your other friends anyway.

Mark said...

Thanks David, I know I do =)