Monday, July 19, 2010

Domesticated

It's been more than 4 months (3 months and 17 days to be exact) that we've been together. I realized certain things about me have changed since then. For starters, I've gotten over the transition from being single to a relationship mentally and emotionally. You know how it is. You've been single for some time and your system is still geared towards that singlehood lifestyle. It's kinda like jet lag, when your body was still adjusting to the change in time zone. Any free time was usually 'me' time, especially when your single. Your plans revolved only around you and the time spent with your friends or family. Then that special someone suddenly comes into your life and space, leaving a subtle shock to your system.

So, it takes a little getting used to at first. Planning my weekly or daily activities would no longer involve just me, but the both of us. Whatever free time I had, provided zai2 was available as well, had to be taken into account. Whatever I did, I had to take both of us into account. Weekends were no longer reserved just for friends, but private time with zai2. Don't get any nasty ideas, we're grateful just to be able to spend time with each other, not necessarily all about sex ok?

Another thing that really stood out for me was that I no longer felt the need to go clubbing. In fact, I haven't gone clubbing for more than 3 months, since we got together. It's either I don't have that much time, am quite tired to even ponder it or just didn't feel like it at all, or all of the above. Now, I never believed in hooking up during clubbing (except that one time). Oklah if there was an exchange of numbers during clubbing which would progress by getting to know each other better after that. Nevertheless, clubs aren't a place to really hook up for me, more of enjoying music, dancing and spending time with friends. I'd prefer hanging out in lounges or any other place where people can actually talk and socialize.

Ok, I'm diverging from the point. Hmmm...I'm feelin' domesticated or getting old.

10 comments:

Marky's Little Devil said...

mwahahaha!!! old unclee XD muaakk

Little Fox said...

sounds like you've grown.

the fox grew too. in many places.

Little Dove said...

I hope Little Fox is not referring to body parts. ;p

I think you have a very healthy relationship. Keep it up! :)

Gratitude said...

you've reached the next phase. Soon, you'll start to hate the glare of clubbing lights, smoke and blaring music too.
+Ant+

cookiedonut said...

you're getting old and settling down... face it. LOL.

good for u ;-)

ichimaru akira said...

ahh, the beauty of youth.....

erm,I still stuck at the growth phase

carpe diem said...

The relationship has entered another phase. Stable. Probably starting a family and raising a kid shall be next?

William said...

Mellowed down. :P. Yes, always consider the BF...

Ultraman Jino said...

i think clubbing will create insecurity. that's why i dont go clubbing. or rather, i will faint inside >.<




[Jino] - A man's not a man unless he knows how to shoot

Mark said...

Zai2: Humpph!

Fox: Hehe, yeah always growing XD

Dove: Awww, thanks.

Grat: I've always hate the smoking and bad club music. But gimme good club music and my ass moves by itself ><

CD: Yalor T.T

Ichi: Youth? Me or...?

Carpe: Aiyoh, not so far yet lo.

William: Yeah lor, if not later zai2 merajuk one =P

Jino: So teruk ah?